Fight, Kiss & Make up
Why Fight, Kiss & Make up model works :
Because no matter what you need to understand this relationships is not a one night stand, this is a relationship where you have invested years of emotions & time. There is so much at stake so why not do it right. What makes a marriage works.
Why do you want to be involved in sweating the small stuff instead of larger reward which is ready called happiness. The moment you shift you mind towards what is required to be me to be happy & explaining what will make you happy your spouse will do his part also if you follow this philosophy.